How multitasking damages relationships (The fourth effect)

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Remember the multitasking exercise? In it I told you there were three negative effects that come from multitasking. But that’s not completely accurate. There is a fourth effect and, to many, it’s even more damaging than the first three.

In this video, I give you a simple exercise that you can share with coworkers and friends to understand and avoid this fourth effect.



Action Steps:

  1. Perform this simple exercise:
    1. Find a partner. For 30 seconds, talk to them about something you learned today.
    2. Switch. This time, while your partner shares with you something they learned for 30 seconds, multitask.
    3. At the end, ask your partner to describe in one word how that made them feel.
  2. The next time you have an interaction with a person, give them 100% of your attention.
  3. Please comment on this page about your experiences or questions.

Principles to Learn:

  1. There is a fourth effect that comes from multitasking: it damages relationships.
  2. When you multitask on a human being, you are telling them, perhaps unintentionally, that they are unimportant.
  3. When you focus 100% on people, you tell them that they are important.

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